Category Archives: Transfaggotry

I Might Go Off T

Something strange is happening. I’ve been so happy with my transition, my body, my appearance, how I move through the social world. In fact, I have not really been thinking much about my transition much at all lately. And then, … Continue reading

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Becoming More Butch (in a Gay Sense)

So when I first started to imagine taking testosterone to physically transition, I imagined that I would become a smooth, hairless, lean effeminate fag. This was how I came across before T (to those who knew how to read me … Continue reading

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Fag Front Hole Sex

*This is not a sex blog, but this is a sex post that marks, for me a major milestone: front hole sex with a gay cis guy. I did it! I made out with a guy at a queer dance … Continue reading

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Trans Feminism: Partial Identification as a Way of Life

As I’ve had time to become more comfortable with my transition, I am at beginning the process of coming to terms with my guilt and anxiety over being a feminist who is transitioning to male. In many ways, I recognized … Continue reading

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It’s a first!

I went to a queer Bollywood dance party last weekend that was chock full of gorgeous South Asian cis guys. I had expected a more gender-diverse queer environment. But after I got over my automatic sense of “Oh, I’m a … Continue reading

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Overcoming Sexual Dysphoria

*Warning: this post is about sex. So I’ve been slowly becoming sexually active again, after having stuck to make-outs during the beginning of my physical transition. In spite of my extremely high sex drive when I first started T (it … Continue reading

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Gender Trickster

When I first decided to use male pronouns, it was because I needed people to recognize that I am primarily a fag, not a lesbian. When I first started taking T, it was because I couldn’t stand that people kept … Continue reading

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