Category Archives: Sex

Becoming More Butch (in a Gay Sense)

So when I first started to imagine taking testosterone to physically transition, I imagined that I would become a smooth, hairless, lean effeminate fag. This was how I came across before T (to those who knew how to read me … Continue reading

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Considering Top Surgery (Soliciting Advice)

Now that it’s summer and I’m nearly a year into my physical transition, I’m starting to think about whether or not I want to get top surgery. Let’s be clear here: for me, top surgery would be an elective rather … Continue reading

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Fag Front Hole Sex

*This is not a sex blog, but this is a sex post that marks, for me a major milestone: front hole sex with a gay cis guy. I did it! I made out with a guy at a queer dance … Continue reading

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It’s a first!

I went to a queer Bollywood dance party last weekend that was chock full of gorgeous South Asian cis guys. I had expected a more gender-diverse queer environment. But after I got over my automatic sense of “Oh, I’m a … Continue reading

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Overcoming Sexual Dysphoria

*Warning: this post is about sex. So I’ve been slowly becoming sexually active again, after having stuck to make-outs during the beginning of my physical transition. In spite of my extremely high sex drive when I first started T (it … Continue reading

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