Category Archives: Asian

Rebecoming Androgynous

As those of you who have been following this blog know, I have been feeling ambivalent in recent months about looking, almost two years into my physical transition, more dudely than androgynous, and about not becoming the effeminate fag I … Continue reading

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Fag Front Hole Sex

*This is not a sex blog, but this is a sex post that marks, for me a major milestone: front hole sex with a gay cis guy. I did it! I made out with a guy at a queer dance … Continue reading

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“Home” for the Holidays

I just got back from ten days spent celebrating the holidays in the town I most recently left (not the town where I grew up). I chose to spend Christmas there because that’s where the folks I consider family would … Continue reading

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Reflections on Feminism, Transition, Debt, and Continuity

My conversation with my butch mentor, who does not want me to transition, followed by my reading of a book she gave me, Among the White Moon Faces, the memoir of Shirley Geok-Lin Lim, a Chinese-Malaysian immigrant to the United … Continue reading

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Unconscious Identifications

This is part II of “My Quirky Trans Narrative”. One hears a lot about trans men who “always knew” they were male, and who feel that they have the “wrong body”, or that their bodies “betrayed” them. The concepts of … Continue reading

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