Category Archives: Asian

Fag Front Hole Sex

Posted on July 20, 2011 by

*This is not a sex blog, but this is a sex post that marks, for me a major milestone: front hole sex with a gay cis guy. I did it! I made out with a guy at a queer dance … Continue reading →

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“Home” for the Holidays

Posted on January 3, 2011 by

I just got back from ten days spent celebrating the holidays in the town I most recently left (not the town where I grew up). I chose to spend Christmas there because that’s where the folks I consider family would … Continue reading →

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Reflections on Feminism, Transition, Debt, and Continuity

Posted on July 8, 2010 by

My conversation with my butch mentor, who does not want me to transition, followed by my reading of a book she gave me, Among the White Moon Faces, the memoir of Shirley Geok-Lin Lim, a Chinese-Malaysian immigrant to the United … Continue reading →

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Unconscious Identifications

Posted on May 31, 2010 by

This is part II of “My Quirky Trans Narrative”. One hears a lot about trans men who “always knew” they were male, and who feel that they have the “wrong body”, or that their bodies “betrayed” them. The concepts of … Continue reading →

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